Dream:I dreamed that I was standing at the entrance of the church I go to when I attend Catholic masses on Sundays. At the back of my head, I knew I was about to walk down the aisle to get married. I was all dressed, however, when I looked towards the altar, my current boyfriend stood there as the best man and he would not move to meet me as his bride.
The groom was not included in the dream and I had no hint of who it will be. There were also two little girls in gowns and my mother said they are my daughters from my first ex-boyfriend.
In reality, I broke up with my first ex-boyfriend because he cheated on me with one of my best friends. We never had plans to get married and we never had children. My current boyfriend has not proposed to me yet but we have been together for two years now.
Interpretation:
Weddings in dreams can sometimes signify that a new life or beginning will take place after a disappearance or death. What will disappear can be anything from a personal belonging, a person, or a major dilemma. In your case, you may be anticipating a change in your life but are still in the process of healing from the emotional wound caused by your ex-boyfriend’s infidelity.
Somehow, you have moved on a little that, in your dream, you no longer see your ex. However, there are still traces of emotional trauma from your past relationship. The two little girls whom you say are your daughters from your ex-boyfriend "materialised" as effects of the infidelity.
Your current boyfriend acting as the best man in your wedding with an unidentified groom also presents an obstacle in your healing process. Somehow, you are hesitating to see your current boyfriend as the groom because you still have prejudices. You are also not sure if you can trust your boyfriend because you are afraid of getting hurt again.
The advice would be to take time to work out your issues. If you haven’t talked to your boyfriend yet about what you experienced in the past, explain it to him so he will understand the way you think and react to situations. Letting him know you better will allow him to know how to treat and love you better. When you do that, you can be assured that things will be alright.
Moreover, you need to assess yourself as a girlfriend in your present relationship. Be careful of carrying over your prejudices from your past relationship to what you have now because you may end up hurting your boyfriend and ruining the relationship altogether.
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That one "sounded" a bit uncomfortable. Not a pleasant one, and probably confusing to experience. wow.
Perhaps the dream also indicates doubts about the current boyfriend being the right choice to get married to?
This is one thing my mother always said also concerning dreams about weddings.
I had a dream last night that was very vivid. I woke myself up and was shaking and talking out loud.
My husband and I had just bought a new home in this dream.
All appeared fine and we were told by everyone that the house was in basic good shape. It would only require cosmetic repairs.
So we put down a small down payment and waited for the paper work to be completed for signing.
Then as we moved through the house moving in everything was simply awful. It was in total disrepair and we had not been informed about a death that had taken place in the house.
I was in such shock that I became ill and all of a suden I was in a hospital. But, there were lawyers at the hospital also.
At first my husband was on the phone with the people who deceived us...the original owner and also the Broker. But, he was getting absolutely no where.
So I grabbed the phone and started shouted at these people that we had obtained lawyers and were very willing to bring suit if our money was not returned.
That is when I awoke startled to find myself literally shaking uncontrolably and also I was speaking these words out loud.
It is absolutely one of the most vivid dreams that I have ever had.
Does it have any meaning? I cannot make heads nor tails out of it.
Thank you if you have the time to reply. I will check back.
Thanks again,
Jackie
A very interesting post Laura. I also love the surrealist imagery on your blog. I think the contents of dreams and analysis could be a very interesting idea for blogging.
Regards, Liam
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You offer great food for thought. The dreamer seems to harbour unresolved issues that prevent her from seeing too far forward. Zeroing in on underlying reasons for feelings and beliefs often helps a dreamer resolve what needs attention. It great to encourage.
Interesting interpretation and excellent advice.
I wonder if it was really a dream or was it the inner fear from the subconscious that makes us aware that we are still not sure if we are emotionally balanced to be in a relationship after being heart broken from a prior relationship...When one's heart is filled with love, one's kindness will over come...
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